Last year there warm a. group of kids who teased me every day about
how I looked. They called me names and mad up stories about what I do with
boys. It started again this year. I want them to stop because it makes me hate
coming to school. But when I tell
people about it, they don't think it’s a “big deal.”
Sexual
harassment is not exclusive to adults. In fact, sexual harassment happens among
people of all ages, including kids in elementary, middle, high schools and
college.
Sexual harassment is unwanted and unwelcome behavior of a
sexual nature which creates an intimidating, hostile, or offensive environment,
and therefore interferes with a student's performance.
Harassment is a way of exerting power or‑control over
another person. It can make the vim feel embarrassed, uncomfortable, and even
frightened. No matter what the intention of the perpetrator, only the victim
can judge how damaging the experience is.
Sexual Harassment
Can Include:
Leering or staring in asexual way
Catcalls and whistling
Touching oneself publicly or touching
others in a suggestive way
Comments about someone's body,
clothing or looks
Spreading sexual rumors about another
student
The presence of sexually explicit T‑shirts,
literature, cartoons, or pornography
Snapping bras, pulling someone's pants
down, or lifting up a skirt Pressuring someone for a date or for sex
Facts about harassment in schools
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What can I do if
it happens to me?
This guide will highlight what can be considered sexual harassment as well as its emotions and physical consequences, and how school performance can suffer. You will also find suggestions on how to identify sexual harassment and what action to take if you are the target.
WHO ARE THE PEOPLE WHO HARASS?
Any one can be a
victim or perpetrator of harassment. The same study conducted by The American
Association of University Women determined that:
Some students admitted to having
harassed someone: 66% of the boys and 52% of the girls
Of all students, 18% cited adults as
perpetrator
What Is The Impact of Sexual Harassment?
Sexual harassment is a serious matter and affects victims in many different
ways. Apart from emotional and physical abuse, sexual harassment can cause
school performance to suffer. Students deserve to go through their school day
free of the damaging impact of sexual harassment.
* self‑doubt,
confusion * low self‑esteem
* loss of trust * shame,
embarrassment
* feelings of
dread * fear,
anxiety
feeling powerless
Emotional Consequence Can Lead To Physical Effects Which May Include:
* colds . *
sleeplessness
* use of alcohol
or drugs * loss of
appetite
* change in
weight * acne
School Performance
Can Suffer In Any of The Following Ways:
* absenteeism,
truancy * acting out
* dropping out of
school * inability to
concentrate
* lower grades
ARE YOU A TARGET
OF SEXUAL HARASSMENT?:
recommendations
to help stop sexual harassment.
* Tell
the harasser to stop. The offender may not realize that his/her behavior is
unwelcomed.
* If
the harasser ignores this request, the student or the parent should tell a
teacher or school administrator.
* When harassment is ongoing, written
records of the offending actions should be kept. Most schools have policies
that prohibit sexual harassment.
* Identify
whether there are any witnesses. This can strengthen a student's case against
the offender.
Need additional information:
Contact: RAPE CRISIS OUTREACH
(318)494-7273 1-(888) 255-7273 24 Hour Emergency Hotline